Dealing with etymology and a living language

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How do you deal with the tension between etymological bases of words and the colloquial understanding of the words without giving a lesson to everyone you meet?

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The most obvious example is the conflation of country and nation but I am sure there are others.

Answered in this episode: AAC: 26 Jun 2026 (Q&A)